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		<title>Envirotouchers in Chicago</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[CHICAGO – Woman Made Gallery is pleased to announce the opening of its new exhibition, Dig In, Float Up. This exhibition features wearable sculpture, photography and video created during Connerly and Featherstone’s ongoing investigation into how to create a more meaningful connection with the world around us. Included in the show are examples Envirotouchers, a [...]]]></description>
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<p>CHICAGO – Woman Made Gallery is pleased to announce the opening of its new exhibition, <strong>Dig In, Float Up</strong>. This exhibition features wearable sculpture, photography and video created during Connerly and Featherstone’s ongoing investigation into how to create a more meaningful connection with the world around us. Included in the show are examples Envirotouchers, a series of prototypes designed to create a more connected world. These include a wearable cloud-suit which allows the wearer to transcend their everyday experience and to experience cloud-like thoughts as well as a root-growing backpack that enables its wearer to grow into and transmit and/or absorb molecules from his or her environment.</p>
<p>Running from March 6 &#8211; April 19th 2009, this playful exhibition helps us to re-imagine our connections to our environment by replacing rationality with sensuality and isolation with relationship.<br />
Woman Made Gallery<br />
685 N. Milwaukee Ave, Chicago, IL 60642<br />
Gallery Hours: Wed-Fri noon-7 p.m. / Sat-Sun noon-4 p.m. / Admission: Free<br />
www.womanmade.org</p>
<p><a href="http://www.urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/info/DigInPressRelease.pdf">Press Release</a><br />
For hi-res images please e-mail <a href="mailto:krista@urbanintimacy.org">Krista</a></p>
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		<title>human/sand collaboration</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sandmounds are a collaboration between human and sand. The sculptures create a place for reflection and vacation fantasy.]]></description>
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<strong>Sandmounds</strong> are a collaboration between human and sand. The sculptures create a place for reflection and vacation fantasy.</p>
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		<title>Rootpack</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rootpack enables its wearer to grow into and transmit and/or absorb molecules from his or her environment. The extra connection and nutrition boosts the wearer’s functionality and sensitivity to the selected surroundings.]]></description>
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<p><strong>Rootpack </strong>enables its wearer to grow into and transmit and/or absorb molecules from his or her environment. The extra connection and nutrition boosts the wearer’s functionality and sensitivity to the selected surroundings.</p>
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		<title>Becoming-Cloud Suit</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:59:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Download the Becoming-Cloud Instructions Becoming-Cloud Suit is an inflatable sculpture that enables an individual to experience the levitation, contemplation, and other qualities of cloud-ness.]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-31" title="Cloud suit ready" src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/_mg_1444.jpg" alt="Cloud suit ready" width="350" height="233" /></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-32" title="Jen as Cloud" src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/_mg_1413.jpg" alt="Jen as Cloud" width="350" height="233" /></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-33" title="Shawn as Cloud" src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/_mg_1420.jpg" alt="Shawn as Cloud" width="350" height="233" /></p>
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<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-36" title="Tristan Cloud Portrait" src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/tristan2-400x266.jpg" alt="Tristan Cloud Portrait" width="400" height="266" /></p>
<p><strong>Becoming-Cloud Suit </strong>is an inflatable sculpture that enables an individual to experience the levitation, contemplation, and other qualities of cloud-ness.</p>
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		<title>Collection Belt</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Download the instructions for the Collection Belt Collection Belt gathers your relationship with the environment and holds it in solid form so that others may wear, experience and absorb it.]]></description>
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<img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/img_8285-400x2661.jpg" alt="Collection Belt" title="Collection Belt" width="400" height="266" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-25" /><br/><strong>Collection Belt</strong> gathers your relationship with the environment and holds it in solid form so that others may wear, experience and absorb it.</p>
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		<title>Snowball Carrier</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Snowball Carrier is a protective device that enables an individual to carry part of the environment with them throughout the day. It allows the individual and snowball to maintain a temporary intimate relationship despite the obvious difficulties they may present to each other.]]></description>
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<strong>Snowball Carrier</strong> is a protective device that enables an individual to carry part of the environment with them throughout the day. It allows the individual and snowball to maintain a temporary intimate relationship despite the obvious difficulties they may present to each other.</p>
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		<title>Building Snuggle</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Building Snuggle The building snuggle enables the wearer to forge a closer connection with his/her everyday environment by actually attaching himself to an element of the environment’s structure. In doing so, it forms an intimate space in which both individual and environment can lay together and, through snuggling, gain insight into each other’s experiences, true [...]]]></description>
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<strong>Building Snuggle</strong><br />
The building snuggle enables the wearer to forge a closer connection with his/her everyday environment by actually attaching himself to an element of the environment’s structure.  In doing so, it forms an intimate space in which both individual and environment can lay together and, through snuggling, gain insight into each other’s experiences, true feelings, and desires.</p>
<p>From this standpoint of mutual compassion – the individual and environment may decide to negotiate new types of interaction. If nothing else, the individual can rely on the environment for much needed rest and the environment can rely on the individual for much need support.</p>
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		<title>Parking Line Drawing</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 22:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Parking Line Drawing requires its participants to interact with an often-overlooked part of their everyday environment. Individuals align their body with a parking lot line and absorb both the trials and the joys of a line that is bound to a singular place and two-dimensional plane. After this bonding, individuals armed with new insight into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Parking Line Drawing</strong> requires its participants to interact with an often-overlooked part of their everyday environment. Individuals align their body with a parking lot line and absorb both the trials and the joys of a line that is bound to a singular place and two-dimensional plane.  After this bonding, individuals armed with new insight into parking lines and their feelings, can use their bodies to extend the line, thereby fulfilling its once-impossible desires. For instance, they might allow the line to stretch, reflect the sky by tracing clouds, or make a declaration of love to a secret crush.</p>
<p><a href="http://urbanintimacy.org/docs/parkinginstructions.pdf">Parking Line Drawing Instructions</a></p>
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<p><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0286.jpg" alt="IMG_0286" title="IMG_0286" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-187" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0277.jpg" alt="IMG_0277" title="IMG_0277" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-184" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0273.jpg" alt="IMG_0273" title="IMG_0273" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-182" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0265.jpg" alt="IMG_0265" title="IMG_0265" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-177" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0268.jpg" alt="IMG_0268" title="IMG_0268" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-180" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0264.jpg" alt="IMG_0264" title="IMG_0264" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-176" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/IMG_0260.jpg" alt="IMG_0260" title="IMG_0260" width="450" height="300" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-172" /><br />
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		<title>Forest Research</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 21:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Photography becomes a visual investigation into these landscapes that saturate me. What does this landscape &#8211; the one that is trying to press itself out of me &#8211; look like? A photograph of a waterfall and an Urban Parlour Game instigating a “growl-suck” are for me interrelated. The photo initiates an inquiry, it is a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Photography becomes a visual investigation into these landscapes that saturate me. What does this landscape &#8211; the one that is trying to press itself out of me &#8211; look like? A photograph of a waterfall and an Urban Parlour Game instigating a “growl-suck” are for me interrelated. The photo initiates an inquiry, it is a study of the types of textures and vibrations that<br />
a growl (a way to emit or spurt a waterfall) carries through the body.</p>
<p>Why landscape as a metaphor?<br />
Landscapes frequently propose and instigate the non-rational in me. The landscape itself becomes a non-rational being. It has emotional processes that move themselves as natural forces. These forces can sometimes enter me, setting off my own series of bodily responses. Sometimes the landscape seems interested in exhibiting the potential to overtake me physically as is the case with sunburn, freezing, and drowning. This is one of its forms of intimacy. It can penetrate you. These geological intimacies can seep into the contemporary urban landscape.</p>
<p><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/forest_exp.jpg" alt="forest_exp" title="forest_exp" width="565" height="565" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-151" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2654.jpg" alt="_MG_2654" title="_MG_2654" width="565" height="565" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-144" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/forest.jpg" alt="forest" title="forest" width="565" height="565" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-150" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/forestPuddle.jpg" alt="forestPuddle" title="forestPuddle" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-152" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2725.jpg" alt="_MG_2725" title="_MG_2725" width="565" height="564" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-145" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2371.jpg" alt="_MG_2371" title="_MG_2371" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-136" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/whiteSquare.jpg" alt="whiteSquare" title="whiteSquare" width="565" height="546" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-153" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2355.jpg" alt="_MG_2355" title="_MG_2355" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-135" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2066.jpg" alt="_MG_2066" title="_MG_2066" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-123" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2161.jpg" alt="_MG_2161" title="_MG_2161" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-126" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2064B.jpg" alt="_MG_2064B" title="_MG_2064B" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-121" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2062B.jpg" alt="_MG_2062B" title="_MG_2062B" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-117" /><img src="http://urbanintimacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MG_2051.jpg" alt="_MG_2051" title="_MG_2051" width="565" height="565" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-115" /></p>
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		<title>Transitory Contact</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 15:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[2001 &#8211; performance/web documentation transitorycontact In 2000 I was on a bus in Pittsburgh. I wasn&#8217;t really paying attention to my surroundings; probably I was focused on getting home or was reliving some part of my day. The bus went around a corner. I should have kept myself upright but instead – in a moment [...]]]></description>
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<a href="http://urbanintimacy.org/transitorycontact/">transitorycontact</a></p>
<p>In 2000 I was on a bus in Pittsburgh. I wasn&#8217;t really paying attention to my surroundings; probably I was focused on getting home or was reliving some part of my day.  The bus went around a corner. I should have kept myself upright but instead – in a moment of forgetfulness – I leaned into the person next to me. His jacket was puffy and soft. It occurred to me that I put in so much effort everyday to maintain my own individuated space. It felt good to forget about it for a moment. And I found myself strangely comforted by this contact. I had the feeling that we were collaborators, participating together in something indefinable.<br />
After this I decided to try to make contact with the person sitting net to me every time I rode on the bus. I would do this through touch. I tried to have about 16 inches of my body contact the other person &#8211; my leg &#8211; maybe part of my arm. I kept a journal of these interactions. </p>
<p>Sample stories from Transitory Contact</p>
<p>54C Craig and Fifth to Twelfth and Carson</p>
<p>I forget about the project this morning until the bus goes around a curve. I try to keep myself from sliding into the girl next to me until I remember. I let myself move into her. How freeing not to have to work so hard to maintain this space between us. My muscles relax. I can give into the gravity of my own body. I realize how much energy is put into the maintenance of not touching. It is physical work. After a while, the girl seems uncomfortable with my proximity. Something about her was soft (not yielding but the texture of softness only). I imagine she is wearing a cashmere sweater but I can not see if this is true. At one point she uses the act of looking out of a window to gain some distance from me. How uncomfortable do I make others and does my attention press on them too?</p>
<p>61 A Forbes and Morewood to Forbes and Braddock</p>
<p>She is in front of me and I can not touch her. Instead I am able to see part of her face in the mirror. A wide and angular face. Lips that nearly form a circle. There is something sweetly decadent about the, near the point of decay, rotting magnolia bushes. I begin to understand all the awful cliches. She is ripe. A triangle of skin is visible within the v of her partly unbuttoned shirt. I want her breasts to be like her lips, forcing voluptuousness onto the angles of her body.</p>
<p>10/12, 9:16 &#8211; 9:25</p>
<p>The night I meet you I am weary, carrying the thought that my movements towards others are always reciprocated by a moving away. (Is it dread I carried with me towards the bus that night? How could I have known what it would be exchanged for?) As I move up the stairs onto the bus I see you sitting in your blue coat. The color gives me hope and I find myself sitting next to you. Unlike most seats on buses our seats are bucket seats &#8211; separated by a tiny gulf. This space, it opens up a longing in me. It intimidates me but I know that in the end I will not be able to keep myself from crossing it. I am aroused. You are fidgety. I know I will have to make contact. I start with my leg. When you lean forward I move my whole body towards your warm seat, knowing you will be forced into me when you move back. This happens just as I expect and you apologize. I turn to look at you and say, &#8220;It&#8217;s Fine&#8221;. I&#8217;m embarrassed. Did I reveal too much in these words? Do you know my secret? Maybe you let yourself touch me at this point.  As you cross your arms your knuckles press into me. We go around a corner and I fall into you trying to press everything into our contact. A smile is edging its way onto my lips but I see you are serious, solid, looking straight ahead. I wonder what you are thinking. I become nervous and try to mimic your seriousness. I too look forward but I feel everything in me, every sensation, centered on your knuckles. As you uncross your arms I feel your forearm against mine and my arousal is killed with a dull satisfaction. My stop approaches and I know it is time to go. I see it is your stop as well and as we get off I start to panic. Will you follow me? I am (sadly) relieved to find we walk in opposite directions.</p>
<p>71A Craig and Fifth to Roup and Friendship</p>
<p>Today I sat next to a boyish man in white jeans and a brown jacket. The jacket was puffy and matched the puffiness of his legs. I got the impression that his entire body was filled with air. I leaned into him. Something about his body comforted me. I let myself be overtaken with the sensation. He did not try to move away but I had the feeling he was concerned about the transgression of space. Every now and then he would make an effort to move his hands to the other side of his body, away from me. I got the feeling that he was more concerned that he was touching me than that I was touching him.</p>
<p>CMU Shuttle Negley and Center to Morewood Gardens</p>
<p>On the bus I sit next to a woman. She is tiny. I remember that I am trying to make contact. I start edging my leg over. I still have a long way to go. Eventually I slide my whole body over again. Again, it is not enough. She is too small. To cross the gap between us would be too obvious or threatening. After a while she looks over my shoulder as I read. It is a passage about Marina Tsvetaeva, one of my favorite poets. Is this contact? Are we touching?</p>
<p>EBA Negley Station to Tenth and Liberty</p>
<p>Tonight my collaborator is curled into the window. His knees are at his chest and his hand is up near his mouth. Through the rearview mirror I can see that his eyebrows are furrowed. We move in centimeters. He pulls away form me in slow movements as I try to subtly overtake him. Both of us try to remain inconspicuous in our negotiations. His presence does not feel warm. It does not comfort me. Today I feel my invasiveness.</p>
<p>74A Murray and Bartlett to Negley and Ellesworth</p>
<p>My Darling,<br />
We spent only 3 stops together. I can still feel the weight of your body. Maybe it was only sleep that released you to me but no one else has ever yielded so completely. Each movement of the bus brought us closer until &#8211; I almost had reason to hope you would lay your head against me. But when the bus jerked, sending a shiver of awareness through your body, you hastily drew yourself away. Maybe you were afraid of how familiar we had already become. It was too late. At that point I would have done anything to regain the sift trust of your sleeping body. I tried to bring myself closer again but you were oblivious, turning away to pull the cord for your stop. You betrayed no remorse for this, not even a trace, or sympathy. Instead you left the bus -weightless.</p>
<p>A few stops later someone comes to take your place. How I wanted to recreate what we&#8217;d had together. With effort I imagined that she looked like you. There was a small resemblance. I leaned toward her, trying to encourage her. But she was not you. Everything I had grown to love in you she lacked. She had none of your calm, your willingness. She moved away from me subtly, trying not to offend. But her movements revealed an anxiousness. She kept shifting and looking about. Disappointment moved over me and your absence became unbearable. When I finally reached my stop I couldn&#8217;t bring myself to stand and watched everyone get off before me. I watched her, first in line, leaving as you did, without awareness of me.</p>
<p>Forever yours</p>
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